This post is part of a 30-day series called the 30 Steps Program to Financial Independence.
When I travel, I’m always amazed at how random people are willing to help me. Some hosted me, some fed me, and some showed me the way. Without these people, my travels would have been dull, more expensive, and probably less significant.
The same principle applies to everyday life. You likely have a talent or skill in something—be it art, mechanics, or cooking. Make the most of that gift by getting involved. Bake for the school fair or volunteer your time.
What do you get in return for all your efforts? You might not see the benefits right away, but the people you help will be grateful and willing to help you in the future.
For instance, if I fix someone’s computer, they might be so pleased that they’ll recommend me to others. I might end up with a freelance job fixing computers for a friend’s company, become the go-to IT person at school, or even get a homemade pie as a thank you. Either way, I’m receiving something in return.
It doesn’t have to be money. I’d feel awful asking my friends for payment when I help them move or paint their new place. However, I know that the next time I need a place to stay in town, they’ll offer it if they can, or perhaps lend me their car.
If you stay home and keep to yourself, you’ll miss out on the benefits of connecting with others. There’s a natural balance—if you give, you’ll receive. I enjoy helping my friends whenever I can and often do so since I have a lot of free time. But I’m not comfortable asking for favors.
So, look around. Find something you’re good at and offer it to those who need it. You never know what you might get in return.