Yesterday marked the series finale of “Damages,” a show I’ve avidly followed and thoroughly enjoyed for its gripping, fast-paced plots and exceptional writing. The show centers around a young woman fresh out of college who lands a job at a prestigious law firm. She’s determined not to be overpowered by her formidable boss, portrayed by the outstanding Glenn Close.
Five seasons later, this young woman has launched her own firm and taken on a significant client. She is now seeking revenge by going to trial against her former boss.
(Spoiler Alert: She eventually realizes there’s more to life, leaves her job, and becomes a mother to a lovely little girl.)
Reflecting on my college days, we were constantly told, “you are elite,” “don’t waste your degree,” and “you’re valuable, don’t lose a second, go out there and conquer.” Now, ten years after graduation, I see that only a few of my classmates dived headfirst into the rat race. I took a different path, traveling the world for a year and then settling in Guatemala for three years. The next year, five of my friends followed suit. Now that we’ve turned 30, many of us have left traditional jobs to follow our passions. One friend became a feng-shui expert, another pursued psychology, and some chose to start families and stay at home.
Are they happier? Definitely! Some were miserable during those initial years. When they climbed the management ladder, they began treating interns just as their bosses had treated them. Many fell into debt and felt trapped in their jobs, fearing foreclosure. I recently talked with a classmate who mentioned that almost all of his colleagues are having affairs to escape their lives and feel valued, which is really disheartening.
I’ve never compared myself to my friends since my life has been so different, making any comparison impossible and pointless, especially when I’m content with my life. However, when I look at the numbers, it’s surprising. Despite spending the last three years traveling and writing travel blogs, I’ve amassed more savings, investments, and a higher net worth than many of them. It’s crazy, right?
“Damages” made me ponder all of this. I’m grateful I never submerged myself in the rat race and instead chose to live the life I truly wanted.
What about you? Are you living the life you want? Are you taking steps to reach your goals?